Day 25 Carole Bellacera – Long Live Love

Romancing the Years

Tangos EdgeWhy does romance matter?  Well, duh.  It’s an off-shoot of the only thing that does matter in life—love.  Love for family, love for your significant other, love for life.  Romance is just one—very special—part of the love family.  An essential part, and that’s why all of my novels, if not labeled romance, have romantic elements. They run the gamut of a happily married couple, my first RITA-nominated novel, BORDER CROSSINGS, to boy-meets-girl (TANGO’S EDGE, SPOTLIGHT, UNDERSTUDY) to an elderly couple who find love and romance in a retirement home (CHOCOLATE ON A STICK.)

I love to write about romance, and God willing, I will do it as long as I live.

I started writing romance early, about age 10, with my first novel, THE VAUGHN’S DAUGHTERS, jotting it down in a notebook and passing it around to all my friends.  It was a story about five blonde sisters, each with their own little dramas going on, which, of course, included boy trouble.  (Yes, I was a bit precocious.)

Then I went on to write my very first real romance, a teen story titled A SUMMER TO CHERISH.  I think my writing was inspired by the fantasies that put me to sleep every night when I wrote stories in my head; most of them were about my dream guy, Mark Lindsay of Paul Revere and the Raiders.  You’ve probably guessed the gist of it—tour bus breaks down in rural Indiana right outside my house, and the band has to stay with us while the bus is in the shop.  Of course, Mark falls madly in love with the skinny, bespectacled bookworm that resides there, and gives up his buxom blondes and rock star career for her.  (Hey, I must’ve missed my calling; I should’ve been writing fantasy fiction all these years.)

From there, I went on to write a couple of romances involving race car drivers and journalists.  (Seeing that I lived close to Speedway, Indiana, I spent a lot of time at the Indy 500 racetrack in May, drooling over the drivers in their sexy driving attire.)

Eventually, I put writing on the backburner to enjoy a little non-manufactured romance when I met my wonderful husband of 39 years, Frank, on the island of Crete.  But although I retired the writing for a while, I knew it was there waiting for me when I was ready for it.  And a few years later, while the kids were in school, I drug out that old Smith-Corona typewriter and got to work again on my passion—writing romance.

I wish I could tell you everything fell into place immediately, but that wasn’t the case.  It took me 13 years to sell my first novel, but here I am, seven novels later—and romance is still alive in my life.  I wish that for all of you, too, when you read one of my books because yes, romance does matter.  Love matters.  It’s the glue that holds us all together.


I’d like to recommend a new author who’s gone the e-publishing route . She’s a great writer and a former student of mine, Jennifer McMurrain. You can find her at

Questions for Carole:

What is the craziest or ugliest object in your house, and why do you keep it?

I feel guilty even saying this but when my mother passed, she left me an amber-colored cut-glass liqueur set.  It’s honestly kind of ugly, and so typical of the 60’s, but I just can’t get rid of it because it was hers.  It just sits and gathers dust.

If there was a movie made about your life, what would it be called? (And just for fun, who would play you?)

Clumsy and Clumsier starring that chick from Saturday Night Live who used to fall all the time.  I swear, I have bruises all over my body, and I never know where they come from.  I once closed my boob in a Tupperware container.  That kind of says it all, doesn’t it?

What is the best non-monetary gift you ever received?

My grandsons.  They are the lights of my life.  I never realized how much fun it would be to be a grandma.  My boys have inspired so much in me—I’m now doing things I never did when my own kids were little.  Like going on the biggest slides at water parks and driving go-karts.  Luke and Zealand make me feel young again.

If you had to pick one romantic scene or couple to recommend to a first-time reader of YOUR books, which would it be? (Any picks for romance novels in general?)

I love the interaction between Kerry and Mikhail in TANGO’S EDGE.  He’s Russian and she’s American, and I love the scene that takes place in K-Mart as Kerry tries to make him look more American (they’re on the run).  That’s the first time Mikhail loses some of his stoic “Russian-ness” and becomes more laid-back.  He insists on buying a Homer Simpson cap and douses himself with different kinds of cologne because he’s so enthralled with the abundance of products.  The humor between Kerry and Mikhail is sexier than a bedroom scene.


IMG_2898Carole Bellacera grew up in Indiana and served in the United States Air Force as a medical technician.  While assigned in Crete, she met her husband and that meeting became an article called  ‘Streaking for Love’, and appeared in “Chicken Soup for Couples” and “Chocolate for a Woman’s Heart”.   She never gave up her dream of becoming a novelist and after a chance meeting with Princess Diana and Prince Charles in 1985 at Andrews Air Force Base rediscovered her love affair with the written word.  Her first published story, “The Day Princess Di Spoke to Me” appeared in the military magazine, Family.  She never looked back.  It took eleven years, but finally, with BORDER CROSSINGS, published in May of 1999, she realized her dream of becoming a published as well as an award winning novelist.

In addition to her award winning “Border Crossing”  Carole has also written  “Spotlight”, “East of the Sun, West of the Moon”, “Understudy”, “Tango’s Edge”, “Chocolate on a Stick”, and her latest, “Lily of the Springs”.

Carole is now a resident of Northern Virginia and when not writing enjoys spending her time with her husband, Frank, her two children, and her grandsons, Luke and Zealand.  As if that doesn’t keep her busy enough she also makes jewelry.  In the past few years, she discovered she has a talent for singing and formed a local karaoke group in Manassas.  Now she sings in various shows and once a month at Café Montmartre in Reston as a member of the Moonlight Caberet Singers. You can find her online at

You are reading this essay at Be sure to visit the About Read-A-Romance Month to learn more, or the Authors & Contributors page to see a list of all the great romance writers who are participating in celebrating the romance genre during the month of August.  Also visit the Awesome Contests page to see how you can register each week to win “A Month of Romance” (31 books), e-readers, and even the Grand Central Grand Prize, an iPad mini. If you love romance, then this is the place to be!

Carole is generously donating one copy of any of her books for one US reader and one International reader.  International readers enter here. To enter the domestic contest, either leave a comment here or enter the weekly drawing on the contest page. Or both.  (Only one entry per commenter per post, though – multiple comments on one essay does not give you more chances.)  Comment entries must be posted by 11:59pm EST Aug 25 to be eligible, though winners will be announced at a later date.

  • Mary McCoy

    OMG love the Tupperware confession, thought I was the only one who had done that! Thank you for your books and enjoy your grandchildren!

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      LOL!!! Good to know I’m not the only one who did that!!! It really hurt, didn’t it???

  • Laura

    OOH, your books sound like fun. We used to live near the Speedway, too.

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Really, Laura, where? I lived in Pittsboro, home of Jeff Gordon. Of course, he was a little kid when I lived there. 🙂

      • Laura

        We lived just E of Avon. Between Avon and the county line.

  • Kim Cornwell

    Your books sound awesome and I will be looking for them. Thanks for stopping by. I love meeting new authors.

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Thanks, Kim. I love discovering new readers. 🙂

  • mariannewestrich

    Another new author to add to my list! 😎 This has been an awesome month of new romance acquaintances. And I’m finding the older I get, the more daring I’ve become. Love that you’re going down the big slides and enjoying your grandsons!!

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Marianne, I can’t believe the things I’ve done since I’ve become a grandma. And Luke and Zealand are only 4 and 3. Can you imagine how much more I have to look forward to? *g* But I’ll say right now, I WILL NOT sky-dive!!!

  • Melissa Cowling Terry

    I look forward to reading your books.

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Thanks, Melissa. I hope you’ll enjoy them. 🙂

  • Ann

    “Love matters. It’s the glue that holds us all together.” So true!!!

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Yes, Ann. Thank you!

  • Britney Adams

    Thank you for sharing your romancing years! I look forward to reading your books!!

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Thank YOU, Britney! 🙂

  • Ann Mettert

    We lived parallel lives when we were younger!! Mark Lindsay, rural Indiana, Smith-Corona Typewriter, fast cars…tho’ the cars in my part of Indiana were/are the old classic kind. 🙂 things kinda fall apart after that. You went to Crete and other places and I stayed here. But I think we both still enjoyed the stories. 🙂

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      So, cool, Ann! What part of Indiana? I recently saw Mark Lindsay in concert with the Turtles here. He’s aged well!!!

      • Ann Mettert

        Northeastern Indiana, Auburn. It’s about 20 miles north of Ft. Wayne. Home of the Auburn, Cord, Duesenberg cars (and now the museum.)
        I am jealous about Mark. 😉

  • Carrie Marie

    i wrote romances in notebooks that got passed around when i was little, too! i didn’t know anyone else did that – that’s awesome! of course, i didn’t go on to become a famous author, but i am still writing, and that’s the important thing. 🙂 i’m thinking i need to check out kerry & mikhail…

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Good for you, Carrie! Keep writing! That IS the important thing. (And thanks for calling me “famous.” I wish.) 🙂

  • Nancy Huddleston

    I’ll be reading this soon. Thanks for another writer to read.

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Thanks, Nancy! 🙂

  • Thanks so much for the sharing and the international prize!!

  • rebecca moe

    OMG, a Tupperware container? Even I haven’t done that…yet. But I have tried to hit a volleyball with them twice so far this summer…they’re not terribly effective.

    Thanks for the post!

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      LOL!!!! I’m heading out for tennis, but I think I’ll keep the girls tucked away.

  • Kareni

    I’m going to be a keeping a close eye on my Tupperware from now on….
    Many thanks for such a fun post, Ms. Bellacera!

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Yeah, got watch out for that Tupperware! It can be lethal.

  • Melanie Backus

    Love and romance have always existed and will always exist. It is wonderful when both are experienced. Thank you for what you do!

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Thank you for being a reader, Melanie.

  • Pamby50

    I can’t even imagine how you can do the boob and tupperware thing. Had me laughing. Looking forward to reading one of your books.

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      I don’t know. I was trying to burp the thing, and I felt this sharp pain. When I realized my boob was caught, I cracked up.

  • M Kuxhaus

    The Tupperware bruise takes talent!

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      LOL!!! Good to know I have talent in some areas.

  • Marcy Shuler

    How cool that you met Princess Di. She is truly missed.

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Yes, I feel very lucky I got to meet her. I remember, though, how tragic her eyes looked. And that was before all the publicity came out about her depression.

  • Jen C

    Ha! I get mystery bruises too! Although I’ve never had a close encounter with Tupperware. 🙂

  • Larena Hubble

    great story. enjoyed reading that.

  • Sue G.

    My mom always said she loved being a mom but being a grandma was better because you only got all the good stuff, none of the bad!

  • leah g

    I will definitely have to add your books to my TBR pile. They sound fun. I love when romance isn’t always candles and flowers. It seems in real life its usually just those little moments too.

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Me, too, Leah. To me, laughing with your honey is as sexy as kissing. In my dating years (which were very few since i’ve been married for 39 years) if a guy didn’t make me laugh, I wasn’t interested. and speaking of that, yesterday in church, my husband made me laugh out loud. Seriously! He got reprimanded for it afterwards but still, I love it that he can still make me laugh.

  • Mo

    The Land of Grandma is my favorite place these these days. my 7 year old granddaughter is a pure joy. And this blog this month is building my TBR pile higher and higher.

  • BookLady

    What a fun post! Thanks for sharing the history of your romance writing career. Loved the story about the Tupperware.

  • Vonda M. Reid

    I love a good laugh! Thanks for the informative, interesting and funny post. I’m going to have to add *Tango’s Edge” to my TBR pile.

  • MooMoo Cake

    Your post had me smiling from the beginning to the end. The scene you describe from Tango’s Edge sounds like something I have to read. I’ll get a copy of it soon but I’ll wait to see if I win it here first 🙂 Thanks for the post and the giveaway

  • Meredith Richardson

    Tangos Edge sounds like a great story I can’t wait to read it.

  • Valerie

    I love that your craziest/ugliest thing holds a memory for you…. regardless of what it looks like it’s the memory that’s the important part, at least for me…

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Yes, exactly, Valerie. I still display it even though it’s not my taste because it reminds me of my mom.

  • Glenda

    Nice to see that persistence pays off. I completely understand about your gift from your grandmother, I have several ugly pieces of jewelry from each of my grandmothers that will never be worn, but never thrown away.

    Also, Thank You for your service to our country!

    • Carole Foley Bellacera

      Thank you, Glenda. I enjoyed every minute…well, almost every minute of my four years in the Air Force.

  • Laurie W G

    Princess Di I’m so jealous!

  • Hi Carole! Thanks for stopping by. I’m glad you persevered with writing romance. 🙂

  • Kim

    I’m glad you persevered! I think a lot of people share the fantasy of a rock star giving up the groupies for the bookworm!

  • Brenda E

    Thanks for sharing your story, Carole. Glad you were able to make your dreams come true. 🙂

  • Flora Segura-Buchler

    Hi Carole, I have some of those 60’s inspired amber glassware, too. I think it is eventually coming back into fashion. Plus ca change…!