Radclyffe – Loving Romance Writing

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Welcome to Read-A-Romance Month 2016!

If you’re a new visitor to RARM, I hope you’ll come back every day in August to read all the wonderful pro-romance posts this year. Check out the full calendar here. You can also find links to the last three years’ posts from the boxes in the sidebar, and if you’d like, you can follow RARM on Facebook. Enjoy August!

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Writing Romance: Agony or Ecstasy

Whoever said writing romance was fun? Well, just about everyone who’s ever done it. Maybe I should say The Color Of Love 300 DPIanyone who’s actually gotten to the end of the first manuscript. There are countless things to enjoy about writing romance novels: you get to create characters who ultimately have all of the traits you respect and wish you had (honor, bravery, kindness, passion, valor, devotion); you get to travel with those characters to anywhere in the world, known or imagined; you get to research topics that fascinate and sometimes frighten you, learning more about your world and the world of others in the process; you get to touch other people intimately, through the unique experience of shared words; you get to educate, inspire, entertain, and challenge; and you get to do it all (sometimes) from the comfort of your own home and maybe even while in your pajamas (giving a shout out to Bev Jenkins who noted in Love Between the Covers, the documentary about romance fiction, that yes indeed, writing in one’s pajamas is a perk). With hard work you get to earn money. So if it’s that much fun, why isn’t everyone doing it?

Well, there are a lot of things not to love about writing romance, not the least of which is the dreaded “blank screen.” You know, when you sit down at your computer or if you’re one of those troglodytes that still writes everything out longhand first (of which there are many talented authors) :o), the blank page, and nothing happens. Where to start? The first step can be paralyzing if you think about it too hard. One of the splendors of any art is the marriage of craft and creativity, and in those moments, looking at that blank screen/page, it’s best to let creativity take the lead. If you don’t know where you’re going, take a step and start writing. Yes, it’s aWild Shores jump into freefall, and it’s a risk, but it’s one of the great joys of writing romance as well—when the characters begin to take form page after page, when the key moments of intimacy—the first meeting, the first look, the first touch, the first kiss, the first love scene—become more than story constructs and become living breathing moments unique to the world and the characters you have created. Those make the freefall worth it.

But back to what isn’t so much fun—that would probably be the middle of the book, when you’ve worked your butt off creating dynamic, multidimensional characters, put them in memorable settings, presented them with seemingly overwhelming conflicts and captivating challenges, and now the landscape looks as flat and barren as a desert, no life in sight. The dreaded sagging middle. Usually for a few days you wander listlessly around, muttering and mumbling to those unfortunate enough to be in your company, before you suddenly realize that the middle of the book is actually one of the high points, a key turning point, when the stakes go up and the challenges increase and just by exposing your characters’ deepest needs and fears and desires, you’ve upped the tension. A new game is on, and you start again and the freefall feels just as sweet.

And of course there’s the thrill of the finale, bringing it all together, of reaching the I love you and Yes, I will

RWA panel w/ ML Buchman, Brenda Novak & HelenKay Dimon

Romantic suspense panel w/ ML Buchman, Brenda Novak & HelenKay Dimon at RWA

take this journey into life with you, and you write The End and it’s done. And then it’s not so fun anymore, because after the edits and the edits and the edits and the wondering what will happen when you send this labor of love and sweat out into the world and what will people think of it? Will they understand your characters the way you did, will they love them the way you did? Will they buy the damn book so you can write another one?

When I tell people that writing romance is my job, I mean it in the best possible way—it’s more than a job, it is a labor of love, yes, but be not mistaken—writing a romance novel is work. The best kind of work—the kind that makes you feel good about your own self-worth, your own abilities, and gives you a sense of accomplishment and pride. Now and then it even puts a meal or two on the table.

What could be better than that?

On the heels of the Golden Crown Literary Society annual lesbian fiction conference followed directly by the Romance Writers of America national conference, fourteen days of immersion in the community of authors and readers and publishing professionals who know what there is to love (and occasionally hate) about writing romance, I am reminded once again why I couldn’t have a better job.

Radclyffe recommends:

Aurora Rey   –   aurorarey.com    (at Amazon)
Winter’s Harbor and Built to Last: for those who like their contemporary romances with a little heat and a little sweet

Melissa Brayden    melissabrayden.com     (at Amazon)

How Sweet It is  &  Kiss the Girls (Soho Loft series): romances where friends share the ups and downs of falling in love

Jenny Frame    jennyframe.com    (at Amazon)

A Royal Romance  &   Heart of the Pack:  from a Princess and the Commoner contemporary romance to the leader of the Pack (paranormal romance)


Questions for the Author:

Tell us about a moment in your life when you felt romance surrounding you.

Just about every morning when I walk around the farm in the quiet and solitude, letting the animals out, watching their uncomplicated existence unfold. These are the moments that make me want to write about the inexplicable wonder of life, and that always takes me to writing romance.

Do you have a place in the world or a sound that you equate with romance?

Morning doves   

Radclyffe is generously giving away 5 e-books from her backlist, winner’s choice, one each to three US readers and two international readers.

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RadclyffeRadclyffe is a best-selling romance author and LGBTQ publisher. She has written over fifty romance novels, dozens of short stories, and edited numerous anthologies.

The 2014 Dr. James Duggins Outstanding Mid-Career Novelist Award recipient, she is the president of Bold Strokes Books, founded in 2004, an independent LGBTQI publishing companies.

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  • Linda Henderson

    I would think it would be hard to read others work while you are writing. Especially if it’s in your own genre. I didn’t use to read more than one book at a time but I find myself now reading two or three at the same time. Usually not all the same genre though.

  • Debbie Fuller

    Enjoyed your post, thank you.

  • Pamby50

    I am a reader. Firmly planted and have no desire to write. I do appreciate what writers go through. I have a couple of friends who are. Exhilarated to type The End. Then release day and terrified that no one will read their books. Yet we do buy them and get lost in the story. New author for me.

  • Molly

    I have always wanted to be a writer but I can’t seem to ever write the stories in my head down the way I want.

  • mariannewestrich

    Morning Doves are the most wonderfully sweet and restful birds I know. So glad to see someone else loves them!

  • rebecca moe

    LOL, my mother HATES morning doves! They woke her up every Saturday morning in the summer until she got AC (after I moved out, thank you–or maybe it was until her hearing got too bad to hear them?) and she’s never forgiven them. Then again, she doesn’t like morning glories either, so maybe it’s just a morning thing…

    Very nice post! I really enjoyed watching you in Between the Covers as well–and was able to tell my daughter about a new publisher as well, which she appreciated. Thanks for writing!

  • Ann Mettert

    Middles. I hate being mired in the middle. Sometimes even short stories are like that. 😉

  • Mary McCoy

    I am a reader, thanks for your post